ADVICE TO YOUNG MEN

 A MAN

To be a great man.

Being a MAN is like being a manager of the world around you and everything else in it.

Find something difficult to do. You need that because you are not built for comfort or pleasure.

Like if that comes along good. If you have a day where you are comfortable and there are somethings around you that gives you pleasure, have some sense and enjoy it.

But don't be thinking that is what your life is aimed at, that is contemptible. The beginning of the life of Man entails that as the bible says in Genesis when man disobeyed God.

Everyone knows that and if they orient themselves in that hedonistic direction, there is nothing in it but shame.

No one is proud of themselves for using pornography, they might  talk and bitch about the right to do it. "Saying I can live whatever lifestyle I want " its like for all you know that doesn't work. It won't work for you because you can't sell yourself out and won't to work for other people. Find something doing as a MAN  because to be a great man comes with a lot of responsibility.

PEOPLE WITH HIGH IQ

Here are the six habit of people with high IQ

1. They talk to themselves: talking to yourself helps you think better and solve problems more easily.

2. They have a great sense of humor: enjoying jokes and funny things can make you more creative and better at handling difficult situations.

3. They like solitude: spending time alone helps you think deeply and learn more about yourself.

4. They are open minded : being open minded means you're willing to consider new ideas which can help you solve problems and come up with new things. 

5. They have high observation skills noticing and understanding things well can help you make better decisions and and the world around you.

6. They do not complain they produce solutions instead of just talking about problems.focusing on solutions helps you to be more proactive and make positive and make positive changes.

The biggest enemy of success.

1. Comfort zone: the comfort zone is where people becomes comfortable doing what they are doing and they don't like to change 80% of the population finds reasons not to change even if the change be positive or beneficial.

2. Learned helplessness:this is where people feel I can't do it.

3. Path of last resistance: which is always looking for an easy way to achieve a result, but nothing worthwhile can be achieved easily.

SUCCESS DEMANDS

 Things needed to be successful in this life.

1. Hard work: don't believe in luck, Believe in hard work.

2. Patience: if you are losing the patience then you are losing the battle.

3. Sacrifice: if you don't sacrifice for what you want then what you want becomes the sacrifices.

4. Consistency: consistency is what transforms average into excellence.

5. Discipline: motivation gets you going but discipline keeps you growing.

6. Self confidence: confidence is not like they will like me. Confidence is I'll be fine  if they like me.

7. Positive attitude: a positive attitude won't solve your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort. 

Focus on your goals not on your obstacles, when you concentrate on what truly matters the res becomes irrelevant allowing you to move forward with clarity and determination.

Self Development

 Goal setting and achievement

           Goal setting is a powerful process for achieving success in various areas of life.

Here is a comprehensive guide to help you set and achieve your goals:

The types of goal

1. short-term goals: achievable within a short period (e.g., days, weeks,months).

2. Long-term goal:require a long period to achieve (e.g.,years, decades)

3. SMART goals :specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time -bound.

Steps to set goals

I. Reflect on your values: identify what matters to you most in life.

II. Assess your current situation: evaluate your strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, and threats.

III. Brainstorm goals: write down all the goals that comes to your mind.

IV. Prioritize goals: focus on the most important and urgent goals.

V. Make SMART gaols: Ensure your your goals meet the SMART criteria.

VI. Write down your goals: record your goals and make them concrete.

VII. Create an action plan: breakdown each goal into smaller, manageable,tasks.

VIII. Track progress: regularly monitor your progress and adjust your plans as needed.

Tips to achieve your goals.

1. Stay positive and motivated: always be a positive minded person and someone who does not look down on his or her self.

2.track progress and stay accountable:share your goals with a friend or mentor to increase motivation.

3. Be flexible: life can be unpredictable;be prepared to adjust your goals and plans.

4. Learn from failures:use setback as an opportunity to learn and grow.

5. Stay consistent: make progress towards your goals a regular habit.

Common Goal-setting mistakes

  1. Setting too many goals: focus on a few       important goals at a time.

  2. Making unrealistic goals: ensure your   goals are achievable and aligned with your   resources.

  3. Lack of accountability: share your goals   with others to improve motivation.

  4. Not tracking progress: regularly monitor your progress  and stay on track.

5. Giving up too easily: stay committed to your goals and  celebrate small wins.

By following this steps and,tips and avoiding common mistakes , you will be well on way to achieving your goals and realizing your aspirations